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Cheat Sheet (Steps 3 & 4)
Conversations That Will Have Her Hanging On Your Every Word
An amazing set consists of 3 parts: the Open, the Conversation, and a Close (OCC for short).
Here are 3 examples of each…
OPEN
(1) Compliment-Question:
Some of my favorite and most effective openers start with a compliment.
The intent is NOT to impress her.
You give sincere compliments without needing or wanting anything in return because that’s the kind of person you are.
With that said, here’s a Compliment-Question Opener:
-You have the most beautiful energy. Do you practice yoga or meditation?
Here’s the template:
(a) What do you like about her? (i.e. Why are you approaching?) = Compliment
(b) What would you like to know about her? = Question
(2) Compliment-Expand
Give her a sincere compliment then expand on the compliment with more detail:
-I love that dress. Red is a beautiful color on you.
At this point, don’t compliment her physical appearance.
Compliments around her style, her energy, or her personality are perfect for an open.
(3) Direct:
If you can’t come up with an immediate compliment, go direct.
Direct opens are appropriate for many different approach angles.
Plus, going Direct is just a strong way to open set.
So here’s your open… Walk up to her and say:
-Excuse me, I noticed you here and I realized if I didn’t say something, I’d never get a chance to meet you. My name is __.
CONVERSATION
(1) Book Review
Read a book about romance, love, dating, or relationships.
Then, after you open set, say this:
-I just read a book about relationships and I would love to get a female perspective…
Tell her about the book, share your thoughts and feelings, and ask her opinion. She’ll love it!
“Relationship Magic” by Susan Bratton is perfect for a Book Review. The entire book is only 40 pages.
(2) Q&A
Ask questions and be genuinely interested in her answers.
That’s all you need to do to have an amazing conversation.
Here are some examples…
-Interest Questions:
What do you do for fun?
What’s your passion? What are you into?
How do you like to spend your free time?
-Fantasy Questions:
If you won a million bucks and had to blow it in a month, what would you do?
When you really want to cut loose, escape, and indulge yourself, what kind of things do you imagine doing?
If you could go anywhere in the world, where money, time, and the law were no problem, where would you go?
-Escalation Questions:
Occasionally, I think a girl just needs an evening of passion. If that were to happen, how do you think it would start? (That one is fire!)
What do you like to do after sex? Cuddle? Smoke a cigarette? A cigar?
So…. Where’s your favorite place to be touched? (That one is also fire!)
(3) One-Liners
While having a normal conversation drop in one-liners to flirt, spark attraction, and create a connection.
Here’s an example:
-I’ve known you for 5 minutes and there are already 3 things I really like about you.
Let her ask what they are.
Then tell her the first 2 things you like about her but not the third…
-I love your smile, your energy is amazing, and I’m not going to tell you the third because you’ll stop doing it.
No matter how much she begs and pleads NEVER tell her what it is.
This will intensify her interest in you and the conversation.
CLOSE
Here’s a Number Close…
-I have to run but how can we continue this conversation?
Only number close if you have text game.
Here’s a Meet Up Close…
-I have to run but I would love to get to know you better. I’m having a get-together on Sunday. You should come.
Use this template to create your meet-up close:
-I’m [doing this cool thing] on [date]. You should come.
Here’s a Confidence Close…
-Cancel all plans tonight. We’re hanging out. Be ready at 10, wear something cute, I’ll take care of the rest.
If she’s busy the night you suggest:
-Luckily for you, I should be free Wednesday… keep that night open.
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