Questions To Ask On A First Date (Part 1 of 2)

This is the first 20 of 40 questions to ask on a first date. The questions escalate in intensity from Level 1 to Level 3.

Level 1 questions are best for the beginning of the date. Level 2 questions a good for the middle of the date. Level 3 questions are for the end of the date or whenever you decide it’s time to Phase Shift (transition to intimacy).

Enjoy…

Level 1

1) If you had all the money in the world what would you do?

2) You seem like trouble. What was the last illegal thing you did?

3) What are 3 things you want to accomplish before you die?

4) What is something you’ve done that you are really proud of?

5) What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?

6) Tell me something that most people wouldn’t know about you?

7) If you could go somewhere, where money and time were no object, where would you go?  And what do you think you’d enjoy the most?

8) So, we’re on my couch. We’ve known each other for six months now and we’re watching TV. What are we watching?

Level 2

9)  What was your first impression of me?

10) What characteristics do you want in a man?

11) When did you realize you were first attracted to me?

12) When you really want to cut loose, escape, and indulge yourself, what kind of things do you imagine doing? 

13) What qualities do you find attractive in guys?

14) What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?

Level 3

15) Are you a good kisser?

16) What do you think makes for an absolutely fantastic kisser?

17) Do you consider yourself a great lover? Why?

18) Have you ever been with a girl? Are you attracted to women?

19) What do you value most in somebody you’re sleeping with?

20) Let me ask you something… When you’re really attracted to someone, how do you know?  In other words, what signals do you get from yourself inside that allow you to realize you’re really attracted to this guy?

Next up: another 20 first date questions.

Questions To Ask On A First Date (Part 2 of 2)

This is the second 20 of 40 questions to ask on the first date. The questions escalate in intensity from Level 1 to Level 3.

Level 1 questions are best for the beginning of the date. Level 2 questions a good for the middle of the date. Level 3 questions are for the end of the date or whenever you decide it’s time to Phase Shift (transition to intimacy).

Enjoy…

Level 1

21) When was the last time you saw a movie that made you cry?

22) What’s been the most significant or best years of your life so far?

23) Who has been the most influential person in your life?

24) If you were stranded on an island and could only take 3 things with you, what would they be?

25) What do you wish you were better at?

26) What is the #1 item on your bucket list?

27) If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?

Level 2

28) When’s the last time you were really jealous? Why?

29) At what point did you realize you were attracted to me?

30) What was the worst first date you’ve had?

31) If you could name 3 things about yourself that are uniquely attractive – that have nothing to do with your physical appearance – what would they be?

32) What kind of things do you imagine doing but haven’t yet let yourself try?

33) If everyone looked the same what would make you stand out?

Level 3

34) How good a kisser are you on a scale of 1 to 10?

35) If we were in kissing school, what grade would you get?

36) If you could make out with someone for 3 minutes and no one would ever find out, who would it be? Why them?

37) On a scale of 1 to 10, how dirty is your mind?

38) Would you ever have a threesome? Have you had one before?

39) What do you like to do after sex? Cuddle? Smoke a cigarette? A cigar?

40) You know what, occasionally I think a girl just needs an evening of passion. If that were to happen, how do you think it would start?

There you have it.  The final 20 for a total of 40 awesome first date questions. I hope you find them helpful. See you in the next post.  God Bless.

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