Finally... A complete step-by-step blueprint for dating 9’s & 10’s without getting rejected… Just approach the way I ask you to approach, say what I ask you to say, and get results immediately... No matter your age, looks, or income…

Finally… Date younger women without feeling the painful sting of rejection. Follow an extremely simple, but insanely effective method for creating a romantic connection instantly.

Finally… No more awkward silence wondering what to say next. Know exactly what to say in any situation so talking to women becomes effortless… Like talking to your best friend.

If that sounds like what you’ve been looking for… Then the STAGE System's No Rejection Formula was designed for you… and you need to read every word on this page…

“I got my confidence back. I know what to say that works every time. I’m 54 yr old and I date women half my age no problem. I can’t thank you enough for teaching me no rejection!

Kevin M.

Why Should You Listen To Me?

This isn’t something I just made up one day and hoped would work.

It took more than a DECADE of research and testing to perfect.

To date, I have consumed over 1,100 different books, seminars, workshops, boot camps, videos, courses, and webinars on all aspects of dating and relationships.

On top of that, I’ve been coached by some of the leading minds in personal development.

I’ve been a Life Coach, a Dating Coach for Women, an Executive Matchmaker, a Men’s Dating Coach, and now I’m an Attraction Consultant, founder of Rockstar Media, and the creator of Dating Rockstars.

I’ve had the good fortune to work with clients from all walks of life.

From pro athletes, TV personalities, CEOs, movie producers, authors, and radio hosts…

To school teachers, business people, medical professionals, blue-collar workers, you name it.

Over the last 4 years, I’ve helped HUNDREDS of separated and divorced men date like a Rockstar, get a girlfriend, and find a new wife.

Dating After Divorce Can Be Confusing and Frustrating... I Should Know.

After my divorce over 10 years ago, I found myself back in the dating world after 12 years of marriage.

My divorce was brutal.

My wife cheated on me and basically left me for another guy.

I felt betrayed, broken, hurt, and resentful.

I had low self-esteem.

I wanted my confidence back.

I wanted to have that feeling of being desired by women.

I’d see girls I wanted to meet.

But I had to be 15 to 20 years their senior and I didn’t want to come off like “the old creepy guy” and get rejected.

I missed COUNTLESS opportunities to meet beautiful women.

I was out of the dating scene for so long, I had no idea what to say or do to be successful with women… and it showed.

To be honest, I was too intimidated to approach beautiful women.

When I did muster up enough courage to start a conversation, I ended up looking like a jackass.

I’d get responses like:

“I have a boyfriend”, “I have to go because [insert BS reason here]”, or something simple like “F**k off!”

I pretended like it didn’t bother me. But the truth is, rejection hurts.

After another soul-crushing rejection while bar hopping with a friend, something in me just snapped.

I realized if I didn’t make a change I was going to spend the rest of my life alone.

So I started learning everything I could about dating, relationships, and life improvement.

Now, over 10 years later, every time I leave the house, at least one woman will either come up to me and start a conversation or give me a strong I.O.I. (indicator of interest) letting me know she wants me to approach her.

By the way, I’m in my 50’s and these ladies are typically in their 20’s and early 30’s.

I have personally tested every dating strategy you care to name.

Most (about 92%) didn’t work. But the other 8% did.

And I’m going to give you everything I’ve learned.

Instead of you having to put in 10 years of research, I’m going to share the exact winning system all that information boiled down to.

I’ve sifted out everything unnecessary. All the filler. All the fluff.

And I’m just gonna give you the good stuff, so you don’t have to put in all the grunt work.

You can just start getting results now.

It doesn’t matter if it’s been so long since you got laid, the dusty old pack of condoms in your room is covered in cobwebs.

This training is as close to a “sure thing” as you can get!

These Frustrations Sound Familiar?

I get it… That’s why I create dating programs for divorced men over 40! To help you:

About The Formula...

No Rejection Formula is based on the STAGE Seduction System.

STAGE is an acronym.

S is for Set It Down so you no longer experience negative emotions.

T is for Take 5 so you live in a constant state of peace and happiness.

A is for Attract so women make the first move.

G is for Game so you can seduce women with your words.

E is for Escalate so you can sleep with women you just met.

How "No Rejection Formula" Works...

No Rejection Formula has 4 steps…

STEP 1: Expand (From the “Attract” part of STAGE)


ALWAYS approach when you’re expanding.

When approaching women, the most important thing is your vibe – The energy you give off.

Expansion is the feeling you get when you’re doing something you love.

Feeling confidence, love, peace, joy, or gratitude are sure signs of expansion.

Listen, your thoughts, feelings, and emotions carry energy other people can feel, especially women.

Know this: whatever you feel, she feels.

That’s why it’s imperative to expand on your approach.

From experience, I can tell you “love” is the most powerful feeling you can emanate on approach.

“There is no greater power in the Universe than the power of love. The feeling of love is the highest frequency you can emit. If you could wrap every thought in love, if you could love everything and everyone, your life would be transformed.”
— Rhonda Byrne

Also, NEVER approach when you’re contracting.

Contraction is the feeling you get when you’re doing something you hate.

It’s the opposite of expansion.

Feeling discouraged, resentful, angry, worried, jealous, or fearful are sure signs of contraction.

Put an end to negative self-talk, release negative emotions, and you’ll eliminate contraction.

Use this exercise to end negative self-talk:

Don’t THINK or SAY anything Negative for 24 HOURS.

When a negative thought arises, simply Reject it and Replace it with a positive thought.

To Reject it, imagine a huge vacuum over the negative thought and visualize it getting sucked out of your thought pattern.

The vacuum sucks the thought into oblivion — destroying it forever.

Or imagine a catapult hurling the negative thought into the sun or a black hole in space.

To Replace it, after you vacuum the thought or catapult it into space, immediately say something positive to yourself.

Reject & Replace each time that negative inner voice surfaces and you’ll eliminate negative thoughts for good.

To release negative emotions, go into the eye of the storm and feel it completely.

When you dive into the core of a feeling you’ll notice something interesting. Nothing is there.

As you allow yourself to feel negative emotions, you’ll discover that even your deepest feelings are just on the surface.

At the core, you are silent and peaceful.

In fact, even our most extreme feelings have ONLY as much substance as a bubble.

And you know what happens when you poke your finger into a bubble. It pops.

That’s exactly what happens when you allow yourself to fully experience a negative emotion. It disappears.

From now on, instead of being afraid of negative emotions or judging them, simply feel all negativity when it arises until the feeling completely goes away by itself.

STEP 2: Open (From the “Game” part of STAGE)


Initiate the conversation with a sincere compliment followed by a question.

If you ask the right question, her answer will lead to a captivating conversation with zero effort.

The intent is NOT to impress her.

You give sincere compliments without needing or wanting anything in return because that’s the kind of person you are.

At this point, don’t compliment her physical appearance.

Compliments around her style, her energy, or her personality are perfect for an open.

STEP 3: Converse (From the “Game” part of STAGE)


Don’t just have a conversation, sweep her off her feet.

Ignite her imagination and emotions.

Give her an experience she will never forget.

For example…

Talk about something she’s interested in… like relationships, love, dating, or herself.

Or add a demonstration (demo) to the conversation.

Here are a few demos you can use:

– Magic trick
– Palm reading
– Handwriting analysis
– Rune reading
– Tarot cards

This stuff is absolutely fascinating to women.

After opening a set, you can easily segue into a demo by saying something like this:

“You seem like the kind of person who likes to learn about herself. Let me show you something really cool…” (Go into your demo)

Out of all the demos, palm reading is my favorite. I prefer demos that don’t require props as they are more natural.

On top of that, girls love getting a palm reading.

It doesn’t matter if they’re scientists or religious fundamentalists. They love it…

When you’re with a girl reading her palm, she blocks out the rest of the world and concentrates on what you are saying.

It doesn’t matter if she’s surrounded by her best friends or other guys…

It’s all about you and her, sharing a warm, intimate, connection.

During a palm read, you’re already in Keno because you’re touching… You’re talking about her innermost thoughts and beliefs… She’s riveted… She’s smiling… Blushing… Looking deeply into your eyes… Searching for understanding…

At the end, the fact that you are both destined for intimacy is explicit.

The interaction that occurs within a well-done palm read makes it extremely easy to flirt, banter, and escalate.

From there, all closing options are at your disposal…

STEP 4: Close (From the “Game” part of STAGE)


Ask Her Out Like A WINNER!

You can:
– Number Close
– Kiss Close
– Sex Close
– Shop Close
– Meet Up Close
– Bounce Back Close
– Immediate Date Close

It’s completely up to you.

Here’s an example of a Meet Up Close:

“I have to run but I would love to get to know you better. I’m having a get-together on Sunday. You should come.”

Use this template:

I’m [doing this cool thing] on [date]. You should come.

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– Hartley (aka Rockstar)

Dating Rockstars

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